With
Halloween nearly behind us, it's time to start thinking of the next few
holidays around the corner—and there are some big ones! Next up, we have
everyone's favorite gathering time, Thanksgiving, which ushers in a seemingly
endless array of parties, dinners, work events, FRIENDSgivings, and other social
gatherings, with food and drink being at the center of most of these shindigs.
So, if you are like me and gluten-free, you may understandably feel some
trepidation about RSVPing to social events this time of year.
Fortunately,
there is much to be thankful for this season when it comes to living a
gluten-free lifestyle. There is growing awareness and acceptance of gluten
sensitivity and intolerance, and gluten-free options are readily available at
most restaurants and in the aisles of most grocery stores. But perhaps one of
the "final frontiers" to conquer in the gluten-free journey is
interacting with those people who are not fully aware or respectful of their
gluten-free peers. And you are certainly bound to run into a few of them this
holiday season as you venture outside your familiar circle of friends and
family who understand your gluten-free lifestyle.
For example,
I bet many of you have engaged in the following all-too-familiar conversation
at a social event: “I’m gluten free.”
“Oh! No kidding?! [Insert possibly insensitive comment / question / assumption
here].”
So, rest
assured, awkward exchanges are bound to happen, but it doesn't need to keep you
from enjoying all this season has to offer. With a little prep and a steely
sense of humor, you can conquer those sure-to-come potentially awkward
scenarios. To help you, here is my list of the 5 conversations you're bound to
have this holiday season, and the savvy response you can have on-hand to help
stave off any cringe-worthy silences—and hopefully provide some education to
others about being gluten-free.
Without
further ado…
5. “Man, I’d
kill myself if I couldn’t have pizza!”
What I say: “Yeah, I miss things like pizza and cake, but cutting them out is so much easier than dealing with the alternatives – and a lot of those aren’t even digestive issues. There are some delicious gluten-free recipes for pizza, too!”
What I say: “Yeah, I miss things like pizza and cake, but cutting them out is so much easier than dealing with the alternatives – and a lot of those aren’t even digestive issues. There are some delicious gluten-free recipes for pizza, too!”
4. “I know you’re
gluten-free, but you can cheat every once in a while, right?”
What I say: “Unfortunately, no. But adopting a gluten-free lifestyle, either by choice or not, is like being committed to anything else that’s rewarding: the pros really outweigh the cons.”
What I say: “Unfortunately, no. But adopting a gluten-free lifestyle, either by choice or not, is like being committed to anything else that’s rewarding: the pros really outweigh the cons.”
3. “That’s
too bad. All gluten-free stuff is horrible.”
What I say: “Not really! Thanks to increased gluten awareness, there are a ton of great gluten-free foods out there to choose from.”
What I say: “Not really! Thanks to increased gluten awareness, there are a ton of great gluten-free foods out there to choose from.”
2. “We’re all
going out to eat tonight. Do you have things to eat here?”
What I say: “I’m fine eating out. Being gluten free doesn’t mean being fun free or burdensome, and I’ve learned to watch my food and its ingredients carefully. And most places now have decent gluten-free menus, anyway.”
What I say: “I’m fine eating out. Being gluten free doesn’t mean being fun free or burdensome, and I’ve learned to watch my food and its ingredients carefully. And most places now have decent gluten-free menus, anyway.”
1. “Isn’t
there a drug you can take for this, so you don’t have to follow such a strict
diet?”
What I say: “Unfortunately, right now the only treatment for gluten sensitivity is a gluten-free diet. There are no approved drugs for the condition, but with 3 million Americans suffering from celiac disease and 18 million affected by gluten sensitivity, that may change in the near future!
What I say: “Unfortunately, right now the only treatment for gluten sensitivity is a gluten-free diet. There are no approved drugs for the condition, but with 3 million Americans suffering from celiac disease and 18 million affected by gluten sensitivity, that may change in the near future!
Happy
chit-chatting! And obviously, there are things out there you and I don’t fully
understand, either. People who may say things like the above to you could be as
familiar with gluten as we are with rocket science or brain surgery. So, stay
patient and view their questions as an opportunity to educate on what it means
to be gluten-free!
For more
information on, and perhaps a more humorous approach to this topic, check out
these sites: